Thursday, December 30, 2010

tyler's new journey...

As some of you Tyler has just finished up an internship at car dealership. He was training in the auto detail department. His hope is get a job working with them after the holidays. Just as he was finishing up there and as we were heading into the holidays he caught a cold and a pounding headache. He started taking the ordinary over the counter cold medications and non-aspirin to try and get the headache under control. Nothing seemed to stop the pounding except laying down. On Friday, December 21st, at moms request, he went to urgent care. He was really pale, had a pounding heading that he couldn't get to stop, was sort of breath and had a cough. He was treated for the headache only and given a RX for the headache only and told him to keep treating his cold symptoms.

On Christmas eve, Tyler showed up to celebrate our family Christmas and looked very pale, head still pounding and dark marks under his eyes. We all became very concerned. He was in good spirits and seemed very much himself despite how he looked. We had a great night together and the next morning (which is now Saturday) mom jumped into action. I checked his blood pressure and blood sugar and both were normal, started him on regular aspirin and gaterade and as much food as he wanted, his appetite was great. We just could not get rid of his headache or the paleness. We did the same on Sunday, waiting to get him into his doctor on Monday morning.

Monday morning 8am, while Tyler slept I called his doctor only to find out that she was out of her office until January 5. I explained to the nurse that we had done as they suggested and sent him to urgent care and he wasn't any better. What should we do? Her advice was do not go back to urgent care but to go to the Emergency Room.

At 9:25 all checked in to the ER and then everything went in to high gear. They were drawing blood, started him on oxygen and keeping a close watch on his vitals while waiting on the test results. The blood work came back and his hemoglobin was 4 (four)! Normal is 15-18 and he had pnemonia. He was then transfered to ICU and started on blood transfusions and antibiotics.

At 2:15pm, very unexpected news from the blood doctor, the initial slides show that he has Leukemia and there are two types and a bone marrow test will provide more information as to the type and treatment plan. He said that is urgent that we start treatment quickly. So, Tyler said "let's do it".  He was treated all night with blood transfusions in order to raise his hemoglobin level. The bone marrow test was done and then we had to wait until the next day for the results.

On December 28 Tyler was transfered to The City of Hope. This brought back many emotions as you can imagine and for all the same reasons as went Brent was diagnosed: The best of the best in cancer, close to home and our village of support, we ALL are ready for the fight that is ahead of us!

Plan of action has been....test, test, test and more tests, information overload, paperwork signing and as of tonight December 30th we will begin what is call the "induction" phase of his treatment which is a 28 day stay that includes chemotherapy treatment for a full attack on the leukemia cells. Tyler has (ALL) Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia type B. It is the actually considered Childhood Leukemia and the most popular type. We have already had great news, there were NO leukemia cells found in is spinal fluid! That is BIG, we are already seeing God at work. Tyler has been accepted into a Clinical Study Group. The treatment plan for this is pretty much the same at every hospital with small differences depending on the drugs. He is in the group with the most aggressive treatment plan of the 2 studies done at COH.

It was Tyler's decision to use his dad's blog to record his journey. We will use this to keep you up to date as we did for Brent's journey. This will also allow his support system to stay in touch with him by leaving your comments and signing in as a follower. This site, along with texting, cell phones, facebook, voicemail, skype and all of the other 2010 technology that is available will keep him in touch with his outside world. He will not be able to have visitors due to his very weak immune system for at least the first week. We will keep you informed as that changes.

We are still adjusting to this news and to this new journey. We do know that the God that has brought us this far has not left us and we are keeping our eyes focused on Him for strength.

To make a few familiar quotes: 'It is what it is", "Nothing just happens" and once again "It is all about relationships". So in advance, I am grateful to all of you and for your continued support, prayers and words of encouragement.

                                                              12/28/2010




18 comments:

Grant said...

Matthew 4:23

Jesus Heals the Sick

Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people.

Be strong Tyler, Fight the fight!!

We love you Uncle Tyler!!

Grant, Jen, & Christopher

Anonymous said...

You are in our prayers Tyler. Thank you for keeping us updated as we do care about your progress as you keep fighting. You are a brave man and we look forward to hearing more good news.

Love Nick, Tiff, Deagan, and Conlin

Alyson :) said...

Tyler, you are a fighter! I know that you will overcome all of this and use this experience to help others. You are an incredible young man. You alwyas bring me such joy! Your attitude is what will get you through this. (Besides your family and friends) Stay focused on Him. BTW, did you get to play bingo today? I love you so! See you soon. :)

Craig said...

Tyler,
Linda and I are praying for you. God loves you so much and He's in control.
Tell your mom she's in our prayers too. Love you both,
Craig

Anonymous said...

Tyler,
Gary and I are praying for your quick healing. I'm so glad you have this blog so I can follow your progress on my trip. I hope to see you when I return. Remember, God's Word is medicine to our flesh (Prov. 4:20-22) Use this time to draw close to the Lord.
Love, Cherryl and Gary

Unknown said...

Your family is very special to us and we will pray that God will remind you every day of His love for you Tyler. One of those ways will be through your mom's love. I know she loves you more than words could ever express.
Thank you for sharing through this blog. May it be a blessing back to you. The Hagstrom's

Anonymous said...

Tyler! So sorry to hear this and will be praying continually for you. Do you remember Nick Pattengale from Horizons days? He's Shawnas age I think or a year older. I am pretty sure he has the same diagnosis and is doing quite well, still in treatments but it might help to talk to him. He's a great guy, as are you! Look him up on Facebook - Julie Barnett

Agnes Cliffe said...

Dear Tyler: I have been praying for you non-stop since your Aunt Lynette told me the news about your illness. Every time my outside Christmas lights come on I think of you. Hang in there. Trust in the Lord. You're tough and I know you can beat this.

Love you,
Agnes
P.S. Uncle Phil just told me to ask you when you are going to come to take the lights down. Very funny!

Unknown said...

Hey Tippie!

We love you and we're praying for you. We're so glad you were feeling better last night. We've been praying that this first round will be effective and will have great results with no side effects. There are lots of people praying for you.

Now, you can pray for UP that he doesn't fall off the roof taking his mom's Christmas lights down! :)

Love you!
UP & AL

Michael said...

I just saw the news on facebook TinyPants. Be strong, we'll be praying for you and will pass the word on to the rest of the camp community. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you. You need to get better soon, our car still needs a good detailing :)

Anonymous said...

Tyler,
We are thinking of you. Gary, Stephanie and I are just a "little" fond of you and your family. ;O)
Sending you strength and a great big hug.
Laura

Anonymous said...

Tyler,
You are in our prayers. Sending you strength and a great big hug.
Love,
Laura Woodward

Missy's Musings said...

Tyler,
We at Woodleaf will be praying for you and for all this therapy to work.
As a nurse, I know how to pray medically and I will be doing this.
We send our love,
Missy and Scud Scudder

Missy's Musings said...

Tyler,
We at Woodleaf will be praying for you and believe that the LORD will reveal more of Himself to you in all this.
As a nurse, I will pray specifically for certain things.
WE trust you to the Great Physician and Healer.
With Love,
Missy and Scud Scudder

Anonymous said...

Father God in Heaven, bring complete and thorough healing to this very special young man. You are the Great Physician who knows all and can heal all. We seek Your help, comfort and wisdom as You guide Tyler and his family through this difficult time. In the powerful name of Jesus we pray!
Our prayers are with you all... Kevin and Lisa Krause

Anonymous said...

Tyler,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We know you will fight hard and beat this!

kathy and bob cason

Anonymous said...

Dear Jayne, Grant, Tyler & the rest of the amazing Fletcher Family...

Today marks a day where we all look ahead at a new year with hope. Our hearts are with you as you embark upon this new challenge. You're surrounded with love and prayer. We pray for God's peace and healing.

Much Love,

The Rehfeld Family
Dean, Lindsey, Drew & Drake.

Unknown said...

Tyler, Jayne and family, You are in our Prayers. Stay strong and know that there is a very special Angel watching over you....Mike and Virginia Nevin